Who I'd like to tell is 8 year old me.
8 year old me is lonely and awkward and lives entirely in his head. He spends hours playing with his baseball cards and spends Saturday mornings at the San Jose public library reading those doublethick compilation books of the Peanuts strips. Charlie Brown had an inner life; I didn't relate to men of action - to superheroes or cops; Charlie Brown was an observer in his own life as much as a participant. He was not a winner. But he was sincere. It made sense to me.
Baseball was good because it was inside my head. I liked football and basketball. They were exciting and explosive - but baseball...I could spend an entire day reading box scores, an entire summer reading the Baseball Encyclopedia. It was infinite - the nifty jargon "what is SLG? how do you figure out SLG?" the middle names - William Howard Mays. Stephen Patrick Garvey. Wilver Darnell Stargell. A hundred years of baseball. A world inside my head.
And I was a San Francisco Giants fan. My first ever present was a ball signed by the 1970 team, the year I was born there's Gaylord. And McCovey. And Jim Ray Hart. That's my name. When I was 8, my grandfather took me to Candlestick; and while I can still feel the rush of seeing the green of the grass for the first time my most enduring memory is the middle aged black man in the Cincinnati cap (I say middle aged; he might have been 22) in the concourse shouting out "The Reds are runnin'!" as we looked to find our seats in the top of the first. It was the moment when I knew the world was real. In my head, no one ever cheered against the Giants.
I didn't know what it would mean when I was 8. Didn't understand that baseball breaks your heart.
But I learned.
We lost almost every game I went to. And when we moved to Ohio in the 80s and went to go see the Giants once a year in Cincinnati - we lost almost every time then too.
In 1986, after the two worst seasons in SFG history, we were in the pennant race into deep September. And were eliminated from contention when Mike Scott no-hit us. On my birthday.
In 1987 we had a 3-2 NLCS lead. And lost.
We won the pennant in 1989. And then came the earthquake and a four game sweep.
The very best Giants team I ever saw was 1993. We won a hundred three games and had a double digit second half division lead. And didn't make the playoffs.
I moved back to the Bay Area in 1995 and was able to go to a couple dozen Giants games in '95 and '96.
We lost almost every one of them.
I moved to south Florida in 1997. We lost two 1 run NLDS games to the Marlins. I was at both. If you've never been a fat 27 year old in a Barry Bonds jersey taunted by 40,000 Marlins fans as you exit a stadium in October, there are better experiences.
We were the best team in baseball in 2000. Lost in the NLDS.
We were up 3 games to 2 in the 2002 World Series. 8 outs away with a 5 run lead. And lost.
In 2003, we lost 2 more 1 run NLDS games to the Marlins. I was at both.
I started blogging regularly in 2006; one of my very first posts began with the following line:
I'm a San Francisco Giants fan. We're never going to win the World Series.
I don't recall specifically when it was that I first learned that Charles Schulz was a Giants fan; that part of what went into Charlie Brown's always getting the football pulled away, or always losing the baseball game, or Linus believing every single October that the Great Pumpkin - an orange fantasy - would choose him as the most sincere boy only to be heartbroken - that part of that was Schulz being a Giants fan. He knew what I would learn. That in the end you always lose. Every time.
I don't know that I have room for this in my head right now. I started crying during the pregame last night - because it was just clear - you know? They couldn't beat us. They weren't good enough to beat us. And I almost didn't want to watch as Renteria hit the home run - because they weren't going to score 4 runs; they weren't going to score 4 runs and that made it real.
And it's just more than fits right now. Too much is different in my head than I can do right now. I can't accommodate both the magic and the loss of this past year at the same time. And the loss of my dad is bigger than the magic, so there's just no room. I wish there was room. I'd like to be happy. You spend your whole life waiting for the Great Pumpkin, you want to appreciate it when it comes.
But I can't. It doesn't fit right now.
But who would appreciate it is 8 year old me. Because he's not a loser. He and Charlie Brown just won the World Series.
The headlines are here.
